Empowering Your
Journey Toward Happiness

Counseling Helping Individuals and Couples Heal and Grow

Based in Conway and Available Online Throughout Arkansas

David* is tired of arguing. The fights between his wife and him have been getting worse for a while now, but the one last night was particularly bad. It always follows the same pattern of raised voices, hurled accusations, hurtful words, and never any resolution.

They tried to make changes – avoiding “heated topics,” taking a vacation together, and even speaking each other’s “love languages.” But even if things improve for a short time, the arguments always return.

Lisa* feels betrayed. She recently discovered that her partner of several years has been cheating on her, and no matter how hard she tries, she simply can’t bring herself to forgive him.

She’s always suspicious and compulsively calls him for status updates to relieve her suspicions, but the lack of trust only pushes them further apart. She wonders if there is any way to rebuild the loyalty and connection they once shared, but it feels impossible.

Aaron* is so lonely. It’s been hard ever since his wife of nearly a decade filed for divorce. He knows deep down that it was the right decision for both of them, but he can’t help but grieve the loss of the future that might have been.

He’s tried to get back out there and socialize, but it’s hard when all his friends are married and busy with their own families. When he does see people, they offer well-meaning advice about “moving on,” but that shows how little they understand how he’s struggling.

Alice* feels devastated. Her partner of many years recently passed away, and the grief is overwhelming. It’s hard to accept this new reality. Her emotions swing wildly – sad one moment, angry the next, and sometimes complete numbness.

Lately, it’s getting harder and harder for her to get out of bed. She tries to stay busy in hopes of distracting herself. When that doesn’t work, she turns to drinking to dull her pain. But, despite all her best efforts, this sadness and pain simply won’t go away.

*The above names and stories are fictionalized composites of real clients I’ve supported.

You’ve reached a crossroads.

And now you’re faced with two distinct paths to choose from.

You can continue trying in vain to figure things out on your own as life gets harder and harder.

Or, you can try something different, something proven to provide a different outcome.

REACH OUT NOW

Hi, I’m Lance.

And I get it! Whether you’re struggling in a relationship, just ended a relationship, or have lost your partner, I can help you find your way through.

My life mission is to help people navigate the complexities of relationships, deepen their connections, and recover from loss or separation.

In our sessions, we’ll use a range of research-based techniques proven to strengthen and grow you as an individual and a couple.

Stop struggling on your own. Call me today, and let’s work towards your goals together.

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David sought my help, and together, we improved his and his wife’s communication skills, including active listening, “I statements,” and scheduled discussions. We built consistent positive interactions into their schedule, strengthening their bond. Now, they enjoy quality time and discuss complex topics without fear.

Aaron contacted me, and together, we processed the complicated emotions associated with the loss of his marriage and implemented a strategy that grew his support group and reconnected him to his community

Lisa called me, and I guided her and her partner through the process of healing the pain caused by infidelity and grew their ability to openly communicate their wants, needs, feelings, and thoughts to each other. They now enjoy a deeper emotional connection and feel confident about their future as a couple.

Alice connected with me for support, and she developed the skills needed to identify the stage of grief and loss that she is experiencing. We installed strategies that helped her overcome each stage. As she became stronger at overcoming these stages, she began completing a bucket list she and her partner created together. She plans to finish visiting all fifty states this year.